@sshion:
I’m sorry to hear about your parents. O.o I hope it’s not too hard for you.
Ohh, I'm also pretty messy! XD When I moved in my recent apartment I left a lot of stuff behind. I guess it was at least 60% of my old household. I just had so many unnecessary things and I was totally glad that I had so much space in my new apartment then and I also planned to be tidier. Ok, I'm a little bit tidier now. But it's still messy. x,x
I guess the biggest problem is my grandma. She buys a lot of stuff and when she doesn’t want it anymore or notice that she doesn’t really need it she’s sending it to me. I have various lampshades (and I never wanted them XD), at least 3 old school mobiles, because she bought them and had no clue how to use them properly, her cordless telephone because she didn’t like it that the keys are on her face while phoning and other stuff I don't really need. Fortunately I managed it to convince her to bring that stuff back to where she got it from when she doesn’t need it. In the end she means well, and she’s really generous, especially with me, even though she has two other grand-children and one great-grandchild. But well, she raised me. So we were always close.^^